Signing up for an online dating site is only the first step in finding a compatible mate. If you expect to meet anyone in real life, you have to learn the art of the email. A long winded email won’t be read, and an email full of irrelevant or offensive material won’t get a response. If you are thinking of writing a message to someone hoping for a response, here are a few tips that will help you come up with a great initial message.
Personalise It
If they’ve shared their name in their profile, be sure to use it in your opening. Avoid using generic terms like ‘hey’, these will get overlooked. Also be sure you have read through their profile so you can express interest in some of the things they have listed as interests.
100 Word Rule
You may want to share a lot of information right from the start porn movies with Rachel Steele , but very long messages will likely not be read. Try to keep your initial contact to 100 words. This gives you enough to introduce yourself, offer a little background, and request a return message.
Know When To Ask Questions
The last few sentences of the email should have some questions. You don’t want to bombard them though. Ask open ended questions, and keep the topics neutral. Questions about favorite hobbies, travel spots, and sports are always a good way to go.
Don’t Ask For Photos
It’s natural to want to see more photos of someone you are interested in. However, asking for more photos, especially explicit photos, is never a good idea in the first contact. Leave this for later, and don’t attach any explicit photos of yourself.